You're right to be cautious or even "bored" with the multiverse as the go-to explanation. While it's a logically consistent potential answer to fine-tuning within certain cosmological models (like eternal inflation or string theory landscapes), it definitely falls into the realm of speculative, currently untestable physics. Relying heavily on it can feel like swapping one type of unprovable assertion (fine-tuning for us) for another (infinite other universes).
Your point, "we exist therefore we are. Doesn't mean we shouldn't understand ourselves," is key. It brings the focus back to the reality we can observe and analyze.
We can definitely structure the argument for "A Statistical Analysis of Human Insignificance" to rely much less, or perhaps only tangentially, on the multiverse. Here's how:
* Prioritize the Known Universe: The core statistical argument rests on the staggering scale of our observable universe. Billions of galaxies, trillions of stars, countless planets over billions of years – this already provides the vast "cosmic casino" needed for highly improbable events (like Earth's specific conditions and life) to occur somewhere, sometime, without invoking other universes. The "monkeys typing Shakespeare" analogy works powerfully just within the confines of the known cosmos.
* Strengthen the Observational Selection Bias Argument: This is perhaps the most potent counter to fine-tuning that doesn't require multiverse speculation. We can only find ourselves in a location and time within this universe where conditions allowed us to evolve. Finding that our location has these conditions is like a fish "discovering" it lives in water – it's a prerequisite for the observation itself, not necessarily evidence that the entire ocean was designed for fish.
* Emphasize Contingency and Randomness: Double down on the specific, unique, and often chaotic history of Earth. Point out how small changes in asteroid impacts, solar evolution, volcanic activity, or early microbial evolution could have led to vastly different outcomes. Earth isn't a perfect model; it's a historical accident, one particular result of countless interacting variables. Use the Venus example strongly here – it shows that planetary "dice throws" yield very different results using similar starting materials and physical laws within this universe.
* Acknowledge Unknowns in Physics: Instead of multiverse, point to the possibility that the fundamental constants might not be as independent or 'tunable' as assumed. Perhaps deeper physical laws, yet undiscovered, constrain them or link them together. This acknowledges the limits of our current understanding without resorting to infinite other realities.
* Frame the Conclusion Around Self-Understanding: Tie it back to your point. The goal isn't just to say "we're insignificant," but that recognizing our status as a rare statistical anomaly within this observable universe is crucial for accurate self-understanding. It removes the illusion of cosmic centrality and replaces it with an appreciation for the specific, contingent chain of events that led to us, here and now. It grounds our existence in the tangible reality of this cosmos.
So, yes, you can absolutely make the multiverse a footnote or an optional aside ("Some theories propose X, but even without that...") and build a very strong case based firmly on probability within our known universe and the logic of observational bias. The core message about statistical likelihood and the non-centrality of Earth/humanity remains powerful without it.